To update the default value -
1) Go to Tools -> Administration Manager and click on the Preferences tab.
2) For the user/group , that you would like to update the default value ,select the DataOptimization category and click edit
3) Set a value for the MarkingInQueryLimit and MarkingWhereClauseLimit, e.g., to 20000
NOTE- Updating this value may also impact the performance
Description of preferences from the manual
MarkingInQueryLimit - Limit applicable for queries within a single column. Specifies the limit for how large queries should be allowed when marking or transferring markings or filterings between related tables. The default is 15000.
MarkingWhereClauseLimit - Limit applicable for queries involving multiple columns. Specifies the limit for how large queries should be allowed when marking or transferring markings or filterings between related tables. Default is 1000.